Seems from reading through this thread, I definately trend towards the masculine/nuetral scents (I'm female, and not even particularily tomboyish!). I'm finding, as I work my way through the scents, the the more florally/fruity scents just don't agree with me and I just don't enjoy them as much, but the more earthy, woody, spicey scents are just delicious!
Looking at the lists people have created, or the scents their men wear, those are either ones that I already own and LOVE, or they are ones I've been wanting to try.
My favorite notes are patchouli, musks, rose, vanillia, sandalwood, cedar, other various woods, vetiver, spices, and so forth.
I love that BPAL doesn't stress what gender the scents are for, and as such, I'm more "free" (in my own mind at least) to find what *I* like, and what smells good on me, without feeling dumb for liking a men's cologne!