Jump to content
Post-Update: Forum Issues Read more... ×
BPAL Madness!
  • entries
    154
  • comments
    493
  • views
    33,291

Domme-O-nance

Sign in to follow this  
valentina

361 views

I'm in a rut, but it's a lovely rut, and a rut that I am happy to wallow in. I'm still wearing Tunisian Patchouli with O slathered over the top. It is a nice dirt rut with a bucket of honey and nuggets of amber poured into it. It works for this time of year. My body chem is very seasonal and this is the Tunisian patchouli time of year; it gets too overwhelming when the weather cools off, and even now, I like I much better when it's layered and softened with the O.

 

I have a tattoo of a triskele on my sacrum; I got it because I love Celtic spirals and it reminds me of the New Grange stone carvings. I've had it for several years now and I only recently discovered that in "The Story of O," the protagonist (or maybe I should say the pro-agonyist) wears a ring with a triskele design. As a result, in some quarters, the triskele is a symbol for BDSM.

 

So I wear O, I have a triskele tattoo, someone give me my leathers and a whip! A friend of mine used to get a catalog from a place called "Dream Dresser," and he always passed it on to me. Oh my. It made me want to become a domme on the spot. He stopped getting the catalog and we looked up the company on the web, and sadly, I think they're defunct.

 

All that said, I never do the domme act. I think I have more fun making people believe that I would make them get down on their knees and bark like a dog, than I ever would have if they actually did so.

 

Oh yes! I have on an eggplant-colored bra. One of the VSC bandolier minimal-padding numbers. I really like the way that the straps look, they're wider-set and very flattering. And I love the color. My panties are black mesh bikinis. I do have undies to match the bra, but they tend to produce VPL (visible panty line) and I have on a pair of those long shorts/short trousers with dark hose. I didn't want to ruin the line.

 

So I've been told that men love VPL as long as it's not incredibly evident. Just a shade of it that find rather sexy, just because they get to think about your panties. But is that true? What have you heard? Do report back...consider it a research mission.

 

Back to my fragrant rut...

Sign in to follow this  


2 Comments


Recommended Comments

On the VPL: I'll have to check with my "test group", but I personally do not feel sexy while sporting one m'self, and when checking out other women, I don't care to see it on them either.

 

I sometimes wonder if I would've been a male chauvinist pig if things had gone a different way.

 

As for dabbling in dommedom... I'm just slightly more than just curious about the lifestyle too. But when I was given an opportunity to interact, I totally chickened out.

Share this comment


Link to comment

snark! I've been thinking of you.

 

I am terribly VPL-adverse, and will wear a thong if I think there is even a hit of a pantyline. However, I perversely don't care if the side-ties on some of my bikinis and thongs are vaguely evident on my hips.

 

I really don't like hurting people, physically or emotionally. Even if they want to be hurt, I try not to do it. Thus, I would be an abject failure as a domme and it's only my sense of tease that allows me to suggest that such a behavior would even be possible from little old me.

Share this comment


Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
×